Kimberley Doom on The Business Spotlight Have a Civil Divorce
Patrick Dougher
2013-02-18
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http://www.lloydward.com/contact-us.html Kimberley Doom on The Business Spotlight Dallas Attorney with Lloyd Ward & Associates tells about having a civil divorce. Hosted by Patrick Dougher of Doer Success Marketing.
Transcript: Patrick: But aren't most adults kids in big clothing?
Kimberly: Yes. Yes, they are.
Patrick: The average American emotionally stops aging at about 14. How does that show up when you have to deal with?
Kimberly: When people come to see me, they're usually on a broken spot and I expect that. But there's a process that you move along, and really there are two transactions. There's an emotional transaction to divorce and there's a business transaction to a divorce. I'm there to help them with the business transaction.
But the way that I'd like to handle it is you get a little counseling, you get a little business stuff because they're not completely separate. But some people really don't want to move along the process. Some people just want to stay back here and not move forward. But if you want to handle it with dignity, especially when there are kids involved and really you owe it to the kids to just make it as good as you can make it.
Patrick: I have to admit, having been through a divorce, the theme song that's going in my mind is that Alfred Hitchcock's ee-ee-ee. Just ouch. What are some of the pieces in bringing people together that you really shine at?
Kimberly: I think where I really shine is because I can relate and I went through one of those divorces real early. At the beginning and at the end, it's a process and it's moving then through hearing them and sometimes you have to give them a little tough love and tell them things they don't want to hear.
You can't be a YES man because the answer is not always yes, but really setting the expectations of, this is where you are, this is where you want to be, what's the difference, and where can we give and take. Some things you want to give on, some things you don't and only you can decide what those are. I'm really good at helping people decide "Do I really want to fight about that?"
Rest of the Transcription at: http://www.patrickdougher.com/kimberl...
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Transcript: Patrick: But aren't most adults kids in big clothing?
Kimberly: Yes. Yes, they are.
Patrick: The average American emotionally stops aging at about 14. How does that show up when you have to deal with?
Kimberly: When people come to see me, they're usually on a broken spot and I expect that. But there's a process that you move along, and really there are two transactions. There's an emotional transaction to divorce and there's a business transaction to a divorce. I'm there to help them with the business transaction.
But the way that I'd like to handle it is you get a little counseling, you get a little business stuff because they're not completely separate. But some people really don't want to move along the process. Some people just want to stay back here and not move forward. But if you want to handle it with dignity, especially when there are kids involved and really you owe it to the kids to just make it as good as you can make it.
Patrick: I have to admit, having been through a divorce, the theme song that's going in my mind is that Alfred Hitchcock's ee-ee-ee. Just ouch. What are some of the pieces in bringing people together that you really shine at?
Kimberly: I think where I really shine is because I can relate and I went through one of those divorces real early. At the beginning and at the end, it's a process and it's moving then through hearing them and sometimes you have to give them a little tough love and tell them things they don't want to hear.
You can't be a YES man because the answer is not always yes, but really setting the expectations of, this is where you are, this is where you want to be, what's the difference, and where can we give and take. Some things you want to give on, some things you don't and only you can decide what those are. I'm really good at helping people decide "Do I really want to fight about that?"
Rest of the Transcription at: http://www.patrickdougher.com/kimberl...
Lloyd Ward & Associates
12655 N. Central Expressway
Suite 1000
Dallas, TX 75243 Phone: 972-361-0036
Fax: 972-361-0039
Patrick Dougher at http://boostyourbusinessimage.com/
The studio http://uanetwork.tv/
http://youtu.be/_IW1JML6hzI
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