Um, how sweet is Taylor Swift?

The singer went out of her way to send flowers and a handwritten note to a girl named Ashley, who invited Taylor to her college graduation party.

T-Swift wrote, “Hi love! I’m so sad that I can’t make it to your graduation party! The New York theme, the photo booth, it being on the 13th… That’s my kind of party!”

Taylor also expressed how proud she was of the student for graduating from the University of Central Florida, and included the tidbit that “I’m very lucky that a girl like you cares about me.”

Talk about flattering! Thanks to T-Swift’s absence, this girl was able to gain a considerable amount of attention from the note and the flowers, which arguably might be even more memorable than T-Swift actually coming to the event.

Even though Taylor has been out of the spotlight for a while, even when she doesn’t show up she can still surface in a big way.