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http://www.yourtango.com/2015257107/does-fighting-mean-your-marriage-is-doomed-video

Some couples are more high-spirited than others. And sometimes we fight more during stressful stretches. But what should couples who constantly fight do? Are high-conflict couples destined for divorce? Harville Hendrix and our panel of experts discuss what you can do to take the edge off and really thrive in harmony.