We all want to feel safe. But safety and understanding in a relationship almost always come after exposing our vulnerabilities to a new-ish person. Yes, it's terrifying. How can we make it less so? How can we let down our guards after being hurt? How can we let someone inside? John Gray and our panel of experts has some advice for how to be safe, secure and open with the people you love.

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