ADNAN OKTAR: In order to be [truly] in love, one needs to be tough and courageous; he or she needs to be brave. One shouldn’t be a coward, egoist, self-centered. One will enter fire for his or her beloved one with eyes closed. Otherwise, if one is egoist and self-centered, then he is playing dishonestly, faking it that is. The spirit that is narrated in the [love] songs is nice, but one needs to submit to God first of all to have such a soul. He needs to fear God, understand the Qur’an and reflect upon the Qur’an. Love is a blessing and it is not given to everybody. He says “I am in love”. How could you be in love; you are just imitating what you see in the movies. Love is not like that. For example, the girls tell him “I don’t have any possessions [registered] on me, I would feel comfortable if make the house my possession”, and he would almost strangle her as she told so. He gets mad; he bursts with anger because of his greed for weal