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So one of the things that we are most experts on in humanity is thinking things personal, making--and making all of the assumptions that we can. You know, if my husband comes to my office, and he’s serious, and he doesn’t smile, I immediately start with 10,000 stories. Is he mad? What happened? What does he want? He’s not looking at me.
I start making assumptions and taking massive, massive things personal. So I immediately create a rift, and he’s probably just thinking, where did I left my pen? Or where is my book? Very simple, men , ladies, men are very simple. We tend to take things personal, even to a higher degree, but it’s okay.
So a meditation that will help you on this is actually, if you have a power card, which is you are going to create in a paper a power statement for you. Look for words that empower you and that, actually, when you hear them, are motivating you. For example, for entrepreneurs, if you say success, power, and personal integrity, they love those words. For women it’s like, you are going to become confident, beautiful, and free. So, find three words for you that are your words that when you hear them, you immediately feel pumped up.
For example, for me it’s values, congruency, and ethics. I have them like nailed down. I hear them, and my whole back--I feel it in my body. My back gets straight. If I didn’t sleep, I’m immediately energized, like, if I took a shot of Vitamin B12.
Words have the power to change your state, and also your body has the power to change your state.
What you are going to use for this meditation, very simple, you’re going to create your card. You’ve got to choose. That’s your job. You’ve got to do the work, too. You’ve got to choose three words that motivate you. For example, I don’t care if it’s money, if it’s family, if it’s--you can use three of your most important values, and you’re going to write them down. And you’re going to sit down, put the card in front of you, and you are actually going to read the card and just close your eyes and be in silence for seven minutes.
Seven is a great number for creating and taking action. It’s the numerology. It’s a number of power. It’s a number of, actually, great initiations, and it’s the number, actually, of things that transmute, and that can actually create what you call miracles, and miracles are nothing but the creation of your willingness to work.
So, to make no assumptions of people, focus on your three power words. The moment when you have meditated over for seven minutes, the moment, for example, that you have an opportunity in your business, with clients, with friends, and you are a trainer and you are looking to make an assumption. She’s looking to me in that way or Mom didn’t accept to take care of my children because of this, remember your words.