she is sometimes forgetting things away
memory sometimes serves her correctly
she is generally stabborn and asks me to bring her some candies
at nursing center
she is 101 years old

she has been a widow for 75 years, bringing up two children
I am her grandson

we laugh even though we have misunderstandings on occasionally
I couldn't understand why she always had been stabborn

Now I can
it is the way she tries to keep people away from her
meaning that she is O.K.

Finding her stabborn was such a big mistake
it is her pride, wisdom and mostly

independence, not to get us toubled with her

wabi sabi

http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/she-is-101-years-old/