Libido is meant to release through the coitus.
Love and courtship to an extent, meet it.
But much of it is released through grief
Or in longing and pining love lost
Failure of love, too, nourishes.
29.05.2001, Berhampur
Rm.Shanmugam Chettiar.
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/the-dead-love-too-feeds/