Sadness......recall of lost love often brings,
With bridge to Heaven shattered down and gone,
When healing wounds open to added stings,
Or subjected to some, if once there's none;
An hermitage is sprung by heart distraught,
Secured from intrusions of ears and eyes,
Or else, seclusion would all come to naught,
So best that every passion left now dies;
But flaming love, once it breaks free, survives,
Yet burning out with cognizance denied,
But from the ashes, Phoenix-like revives;
And past torments with newer joys belied;
......Love brims as new, the second time around,
......After its loss and afterwards was found.

Reyvrex Questor Reyes

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