The most important thing, I believe to protect children is to not aggravate the situation. Divorce is a legal process, but it's also emotional process. When you consider how to go about your divorce within the context of a legal process. I would encourage you to strongly consider mediation which is apt reduce hostility, tension, not to mention the cost and thereby, reduce the amount of fallout from whatever emotions arise and it's common and normal to have anger, frustration, sadness during divorce, but reduce the amount of fallout on the children.

The major tip, I would have for you is, find a mediator. Find a mediator also with not only legal background, but background in psychology also. So, they can be attentive to the emotions that are going on and thereby again reduce the hostility, the tension, the fallout that's likely to occur from that when parents argue. Practical tip, bite your tongue when you get angry or you're in the midst of a lot of sadness, bite your tongue, count to 10. Adhere to what Abraham Lincoln said, "When you're angry count to 10, when you're really angry count to 100."

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